How do you configure vim to prompt for deletion of swap files even if it believes another instance of vim may still be using the file? I still want to see the warning message ... just also have the option to delete the file and overrule vim.
The option below, for instance, doesn't have the
(D)elete option. (where
program.cc may potentially be modified by another vim instance)
(1) Another program may be editing the same file. If this is the case, be careful not to end up with two different instances of the same file when making changes. Quit, or continue with caution. (2) An edit session for this file crashed. If this is the case, use ":recover" or "vim -r program.cc" to recover the changes (see ":help recovery"). If you did this already, delete the swap file "program.swp" to avoid this message. Swap file "program.cc.swp" already exists! [O]pen Read-Only, (E)dit anyway, (R)ecover, (Q)uit, (A)bort: